1thatseeks
03-06-2009, 06:55 AM
hello, i'm relatively new here, jion a few days ago.
I'm not sure how to say this but i will try to be as frank as possible and without disrespect.
like most here, i have a strong attraction to arabs, middle easterners and persians. ( just something about them that lures me) Yet i have never had relations neither sexual nor even really chatted with one, ever. I dont live near any as far as i know. I would very much like to meet one, becoming friends if not more. but i usually have my hang ups.
One the rare case of me seeing one in the city streets or in a store i usually approach in a friendly demeanor. very often, i feel very nervous and try to stay to as much small talk as possible( asking the time or for directions even though i know my way around the city). they may seem not to be interested in chat or busy in appearance which only adds to my nervousness.Very often they will ignore me. lol, i have yet to even try the cuisine yet ( there are a few restaurants in chicago) i'm simply too nervous to go in the restaurant and i'm not sure why. i don't want sex from them at this point but wish to be friends. So my question is for those who have gone further than me and arabs that have some advice. How do i approach an arab guy to becoming acquainted with them to the point where we could become friends?
i know to get rid of the nervous feelings which i have been trying to, but what else? i dont speak arabic but currently learning and know some about various cultures of the arabic speaking world. perhaps i could ask for help in learning the language? ( i have issues with articulating the pronunciations):confused:
I have always found it easy to chat online but i have yet to find a website that have a large enough membership so i could find what i was looking for. i will chat with anyone but because i never had a friend thats arab or mid eastern i would really like to meet one. are there any on this site that would like to chat and be penpals or even become friends?!?! Are there more sites where i can meet other guys too? (I preferable older +30 years becuase on top of arabs i'm really attracted to older ones. I like those guys in the orientbear videos lol)
thanks so much
look forward to hearing from my fellow board members.
I'm not sure how to say this but i will try to be as frank as possible and without disrespect.
like most here, i have a strong attraction to arabs, middle easterners and persians. ( just something about them that lures me) Yet i have never had relations neither sexual nor even really chatted with one, ever. I dont live near any as far as i know. I would very much like to meet one, becoming friends if not more. but i usually have my hang ups.
One the rare case of me seeing one in the city streets or in a store i usually approach in a friendly demeanor. very often, i feel very nervous and try to stay to as much small talk as possible( asking the time or for directions even though i know my way around the city). they may seem not to be interested in chat or busy in appearance which only adds to my nervousness.Very often they will ignore me. lol, i have yet to even try the cuisine yet ( there are a few restaurants in chicago) i'm simply too nervous to go in the restaurant and i'm not sure why. i don't want sex from them at this point but wish to be friends. So my question is for those who have gone further than me and arabs that have some advice. How do i approach an arab guy to becoming acquainted with them to the point where we could become friends?
i know to get rid of the nervous feelings which i have been trying to, but what else? i dont speak arabic but currently learning and know some about various cultures of the arabic speaking world. perhaps i could ask for help in learning the language? ( i have issues with articulating the pronunciations):confused:
I have always found it easy to chat online but i have yet to find a website that have a large enough membership so i could find what i was looking for. i will chat with anyone but because i never had a friend thats arab or mid eastern i would really like to meet one. are there any on this site that would like to chat and be penpals or even become friends?!?! Are there more sites where i can meet other guys too? (I preferable older +30 years becuase on top of arabs i'm really attracted to older ones. I like those guys in the orientbear videos lol)
thanks so much
look forward to hearing from my fellow board members.