How to Connect with Arab Men [Archive]

RJayneMM

10-14-2008, 10:13 PM

Hi,

Maybe this question has been asked before or has been asked in another thread. If it has, I apologize.

I'm new to Jerusalem and would love to connect with the Arab men here. There are quite a few of them in my Ulpan, but I find it hard to break into their circle. Does anyone have any tips for me? What are good topics to talk about? What type of small talk will help me get my foot in the door, and maybe even help suggest what I'm looking for?

Any help would be appreciated.

ehabo

10-14-2008, 10:46 PM

look my frind , dont talk with arab guy about Homosexuality Because if they dont gay they will Hurt and punished you ...

you can make Connect just in internet sites ...

in this site you can find many gays

http://www.tapuz.co.il/irc/chat_newCatom/index.asp?regUser=no&room=הומואים&f=

RJayneMM

10-14-2008, 11:31 PM

Thanks. I am always descrete and would never think of talking about anything gay related directly. My Hebrew and Arabic are not so good, so do you happen to know of any good sites in English that I could use to try and connect while I'm in Israel.

ehabo

10-15-2008, 09:28 AM

i don't know any chat site 4 gays in english , i have this site http://chat.nana10.co.il/ but in hebrew ... !!!

loverboy

10-15-2008, 10:29 PM

i think it's difficult to find arab guys

RJayneMM

10-15-2008, 10:37 PM

I agree.......they seem to be a very tight knit group. I know that it's dangerous to talk about homosexuality in the Arab world, but there must be ways to initiate a friendship that is not immediately suspect. Given the closeness that already exists between Arab males in general, I wonder if part of the difficulty in meeting one is that we as non-Arabs just don’t know how to crack their code. That’s what I like to find out. How does a non-Arab break into the Arab male world.

Polarcoffee

10-16-2008, 04:54 AM

i think it's difficult to find arab guys

Thats so true...I only have ONE Arab gay friend who lives in Toronto...but he's born in Canada...not exactly arab...

glendaleazn

10-22-2008, 02:53 AM

yeah its hard to find them.

Murat

10-22-2008, 11:48 PM

It depends where you are. In England it is easy in London, but not anywhere else. BUT London is not like say, Marrakesh, when their are men looking to have causal sex with tourists. Like other Londoners they are ordinary people going about their day to day lives so basicaly you look to make arab friends becuse you genuinely what to be friends, your own gaydar with tell you if it can go further. If you live in a small town, like gays all over the world (and one of the worst things that gays have to put up with) often you have no choice, but to move to another more tolerant town, in yiour own country or out of it. Life can be shit sometimes!!!!

minibee

10-31-2008, 07:09 PM

come to england there a lot of arabs guys in da pub&bar when they drunk you can ..... wiv them hehe!!

azar14libnan

11-22-2008, 11:03 PM

thanks for the website

ce83

11-22-2008, 11:30 PM

I would really like to know how to break into their world as well, since Im aroused by arab men, and would love to know as well, where to find some gay top ones. I cant seem to find any here in america either. It is so difficult. And the one I found, and lives with me, he is moroccan, and not even gay either. :(

annarbor2008

11-25-2008, 05:26 AM

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ltlescapade

11-25-2008, 01:53 PM

most arab gay men are very discreet. BECAUSE OF THEIR RELIGION AND TRADITION? IT IS VERY DIFFICULT FOR THEM TO come out; So my best advise is to try craigslist and post add some of theme are arab but they say they are italiens ot french
godd luck and let me know how it goes

danis

11-25-2008, 05:14 PM

hi i want to find a arab in ukraine , how to find , any one can let me know ?

annarbor2008

11-26-2008, 06:14 AM

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italianshirt

11-26-2008, 09:20 PM

If there are any arabs who are interested in chatting with me in private, with webcam ;-) feel free to add me on msn,

italianshirt[AT]hotmail.com

greets!

webmaster

11-26-2008, 09:46 PM

If there are any arabs who are interested in chatting with me in private, with webcam ;-) feel free to add me on msn,

italianshirt[AT]hotmail.com

greets!

Dude, double-posting is not allowed, especially not if you post the same thing 7 times and in threads in which your posts do not belong! I removed 6 of your posts..

italianshirt

11-27-2008, 12:01 AM

there are so many gay arabs in deed, but man it's hard to get in touch with them... a gaydar doesn't always help: most arab men love being well dressed 'n' groomed and wear flashy colors like pink or yellow. hmmmm perhaps they're all a bit gay :-D wishful thinking I know ;-)

kamel93

12-06-2008, 03:54 PM

Hi every body
I am an arab guy living in Paris. I just want to tell you that a lot of arab guy have sex together.
The only think : You don't have to tell him or the that they are gay.
There are a lot of algerian, marocan, egyptian and tunisian guy in Paris. they like sex and that's all. Mos of them are marred and sometimes, they have sex with men.

danis

12-06-2008, 04:23 PM

hi to all ,

my self danis , i am living in odessa ukraine , i am 25 years

old , 177 cm height ,weight 67 kgs .i am an asian guy.

i am looking for turkish /arabic guy in odessa ukraine

if any arabic /turkish guy in ukriane . please drop me the line .

daniswang2000[AT]hotmail.com

rgds

danis

geisha

12-06-2008, 08:06 PM

Hey... yup! I agree totally!

Everytime I eyed an Arab guy, I could feel he only wants sex!

So hard to find love...
Geisha

bistallion

12-07-2008, 01:21 PM

I do not think it is a problem to get in contact with arab guys. At least not if you are a western tourist who visits an arab country. Arab people are normally very communicative and curious. The problem for me was: Who of all the nice friendly guys was liberal enough that I could talk open with them? You know many of them are HOT looking and are full of sex-desire. But at the other hand many of them are very traditional-thinking and even religious. I respect them and I did not want to insult them. So there were some guys I did not dare to invite them directly to come to my appartment and watch (straight) porn with me. I just enjoyed the arabic kisses with them, nothing more. Hmmm, what a pity!

bistallion

12-07-2008, 01:37 PM

by the way: I am still interested to change experiences with other members. But I do not like to write and write and write... How to report in details about someones experiences here???
Why nobody of you use Skype? Its a free software you can download that enables you to talk in a discrete way over mikrophone in a good quality. Two or more guys can talk together... All you need is a microphone or headset. Thats very cheap!

fendal

12-07-2008, 02:54 PM

gsdfargo

12-08-2008, 05:17 PM

I have found it pretty easy to meet Arab and Persian gay men. True, I have met them on the internet...but I have formed some really good friendships this way. Try going to google and type in (for example) Iraq chat (or any other country for that matter) and there are several chat rooms available. Yes, most of these guys are straight, but if you are patient...you WILL meet same sex oriented Arab men. The most imortant thing I can add as well is know some things about the country of the guy you are chatting with. Know some Arabic words. Be respectful. Meeting Arab and Persian men is not just about the fetish...just some thoughts. Mike

hijinx26

12-13-2008, 07:59 PM

I think the internet is that best place.

eizulz

12-13-2008, 09:05 PM

i luv arab guys huhu

kolya_gay

12-14-2008, 09:02 PM

hi to everybody! Can you tell, how can I find gay arabs in Kyiv, Ukraine?

kolya_gay

12-14-2008, 09:05 PM

Write me KOLYA_GAY[AT]I.UA. Kyiv, Ukraine. Good Luck! You are welcome!

gsdfargo

12-16-2008, 03:16 AM

i think it's difficult to find arab guys

I responded to a question like this on another thread. If you think it is hard to find Arab men that then presumes that they are "lost"!!! If you mean as a non Arab, you have difficulties in speaking with Arab men (gay or straight), my question to you is "...what are you doing about it"? Have you learned any Arabic? Have you learned any Farsi? Have you read up on any history of the region? Do you have any knowledge of various regional governments? etc etc. Once you start opening these doors, meeting people will follow. And some of those people might even be same sex oriented. If you are simply looking for some "Arab Cock"...you may be disappointed.