Money

[gerrit]

Some guys ask for money, what is usual in Egypt.
I chat with with somebody in Alexandria, and he said to me, he want to have some money, he asked for $500 a night!
I think that too much.!

[bulls40]

i never give money,i may pay for dinner,a gift but cash money never,where is the joy if you pay for money

[xpat11]

Some guys ask for money, what is usual in Egypt.
I chat with with somebody in Alexandria, and he said to me, he want to have some money, he asked for $500 a night!
I think that too much.!

Don't pay, you can find guys in Alexandria who doesn't ask for money....

[geisha]

i never give money,i may pay for dinner,a gift but cash money never,where is the joy if you pay for money

;) Ok, buy me dinner then.


Yup, don't pay, its not meant to be that way.
If u're ready to pay, u can always pay to get better ones...
Why do u need to pay someone from the streets?


Geisha

[bulls40]

sure ,will buy a dinner and finish it on the sofa

[ButtyBoy]

The more I think about this subject, the more doubts I get. When I'm in my own country I don't pay for sex, and until now I didn't pay for sex abroad either. I try to put myself in the position of these guys who live in third-world countries though, and I realise that many of them are in a bad situation. No, I would not pay a gay prostitute I think, but would it be so bad to pay for dinner etc. for some nice but poor guy who is my friend during my stay? As long as I can afford it without getting into problems myself I don't think it would be so bad. And with a little common sense I think it's not too difficult to seperate the good guys from the bad guys. Any thoughts on this?

[geisha]

sure ,will buy a dinner and finish it on the sofa

To finish dinner on the sofa... or to finish me on the sofa? U choose. :p


No offence guys, just plain clean fun!
Geisha

[bill_070]

I hate to pay for love. Sure I take the guy for diner and if he is really good I buy him some presents.

[gerrit]

I'm agree with that!

[diamondworld]

LOL I think it only makes sense that, unless you are someone he's attracted to, he at least deserves something significant in return to help his poverty-stricken family, ESPECIALLY when that hot arabic boy is putting his life in danger!!!

[Kivar]

Don't pay any money, i do it free

[Kivar]

hhehehehehehhehee

[Kivar]

I was joking, friends... don't ask me for sex eh??

[bulls40]

everyone is free,to do whatever you want,ask those guys who gives the money,their reason

[ehabo]

if he ask for money , where is the love ? this thing told us that some gays just search for money not 4 enjoy not 4 love ...

[arzika]

I agree with you ehabo,love is must important ....I can do anything for the person that I love just to make him happy this include money gift.

[SCARAMOUCH]

$500a night. He fancies himself a bit. It is common in Egypt to have someone want money from you. 50E is what is commonly asked for. As like other people I find buying presents and paying for food suitable enough. If my friends need financial help I give it. The problem is as I was to find to my cost, although nothing severe in English money, this was being passed onto the wrong sort of people, people who would get these boys to get money from me to pass onto them. A friend who has only beed to Egypt once before tells the same tale of when he went on a motorboat with a boy. Afterwards he asked for money. He threatened my friend telling him he knows what hotel he is at and he will make a problem for him. So he handed over £50. As I had said in a previous posting, only go to places where you are in control.

[SCARAMOUCH]

I had spent a lot of time in Egypt last year after my mother had died. I was very emotionally vulnerable and in need of, well love. I had fallen in Love and I wished to look after this boy. I instinctively knew later what was going on. I tried to seperate myself from him, although I knew he was being made to do things by others. Now I have been away from Egypt a long time and have had much time to reflect. It is perhaps best not to get too attached especially at such an emotioanally confusing time. Steering away from that, it is common to find a boy who wishes to "marry you" and be your husband. This entails taking out some kind of legal contract. You can then set the boy up in business. I know of one boy in Aswan who has two mini Coaches. It is common for boys to be given Feluccas. I know one boy in Luxor who has a friend from Holland and he gave him many thousands to extend his house. The boy is something of a hypocrit having come to me in my flat and at times of displeasure at my refusal of his advances resulted in him shouting "Go away Gay! You Gay. All of Luxor know you gay." And such as this. I have often warned of these West Bank boys with their two-faces. Egyptians tend to have two-faces, even those that do not do sex. One boy asked me of my time in Egypt with the boys. I told him. He then turned Fundamentalist standing over me quoting the Koran in Arabic and condemming me to eternal damnation. I have read the Koran several times and so I knew of what he speaks. When in the times to come I would buy other people nice phones he would ask "Why you not get this for me? What have I done to you?" I think nex time I should remind him as he had never taken it back. On the most part they like you for what you can given them and for the sexual relief you can grant them but when push comes to shove they will always side with their own. I have found the people you are best to be with are those who have more reason to be grateful for what you can give and how much you can look after them.

[SCARAMOUCH]

Back in 2003 a friend and frequent visitor to Egypt had asked that I join him. He spoke of how easy it is to get boys and how little money you give. I refused the idea feeling unsettled about the idea of taking advantage of someones economic plite for my own sexual gratification. I didn't go that time. Then having looked at the guide books I saw what wonders Egypt had to off to explore. At a later date I joined him. When we went out the first night I found the boys to be very flirtatious which was very flattering. It was when they started asking for money that I felt uneasy. My friend had more of an eye for the boys than I did, this being his motivation for going to Egypt. He had met some on the Corniche. The three of them invited him to go to the flat. I said I didn't want to. They said, just come and have a beer (which it seems we were to buy) I didn't really want to go but I felt my friend prefered this. We went some distance then I changed my mind. I felt uneasy. Why should I want to go when I had no great reason to? I turned and left taking my friend with me. For this he was glad. Boy on the Corniche in the warm summer nights are there for one reason only, to get you to part with your money. I have spent eough time in Luxor to know the people to trust and who I know will make me happy. This brings me to my next point. Most boys just want to give a quick fix with all the gain. This was my earliest experience and lesson learned. Find someone who goes the distance. Not as my friend put it "A one minute wonder"

[altyno]

thank you for being honnest

[temis]

500 $ he must be very good !!

[favo]

people searh a friend not an escort!

[minibee]

anyway i think you don't need to pay that so much through just let find some other and make him drunk & some thing special for them then .....lol

[Portugues]

Favo is right. I never understood why people don't join other just for fun, sex or simply because they liked each other...there is love among arab gay men, right?

[bonbonboi]

I do not encourage gay prostitute, just do not pay for sex unless you found a rare gay which u get interested in him that much and he dont care about you.
and hey do not forget to use him as much as possible.
fuck hard ya....

[Murat]

It is the season for good cheer and honesty? If you were so rich money did not matter could you honestly say you would not pay for sex if he looked as if he were worth it!

"If you have a choice between sex appeal and money slways chose money becasue when you get older your money is your sex appeal" Katherine Hepburn

My answer probably yes and I would feel pretty guilty afterwards.