Would you consider having "bareback" sex ?

[sandboy13]

Would you consider having "bareback" sex ?
A very daring question , but it have to be asked .
please say the truth only chat members

[ItalianWave]

Would you consider having "bareback" sex ?
A very daring question , but it have to be asked .
please say the truth only chat members
Of course I had it from time to time.
Why that? There are many reasons: love, faith, inconcience or just because it is completely different. I hardly ever think someone can live without at least having it once in life. That's one of thing live worths being lived!

[ItalianWave]

No Moveeeeeeeeee

What do you mean by that?

[webmaster]

What do you mean by that?

He won't be able to reply because I've just banned him for posting meaningless posts: http://www.arab-gay.com/forums/search.php?searchid=13512. I decided to not yet remove his posts so that hopefully others who read this will have the chance to see what kind of posts are considered to be meaningless.

[sandboy13]

I guess every one did it but not a lot have the courage to say that they did because they don't want others to judge them or be scared from having sex with them.

[ItalianWave]

I guess every one did it but not a lot have the courage to say that they did because they don't want others to judge them or be scared from having sex with them.

There you go.

[TomRE]

Sorry, no bareback!!!

[friendly]

what is bareback? i dont know what it is.... some one can explain plz...

[beaubear64]

Of course...the reason I have sex is to get that sperm buddy. If I dont get the prize, I aint suckin it.

[Page]

i luv bareback. so i only have it if i am hot enuf for the guy.

[topboy]

To answer your question freindly - Bareback is having anal sex with out a condom. This should only should be practiced when you know your partner and his sexsual history for a long time.

[chbear]

what is bareback? i dont know what it is.... some one can explain plz...

It means sex where semen is able to be exchanged between partners.

Most often, it's anal sex without a condom where the top cums in the bottom.

While some say that oral sex without a condom is not dangerous, I know at least one person who contracted HIV from oral sex (he had an open sore in his mouth).

[gerrit]

I would never do baraback!
I prefer always safe sex!

[boy19]

I did it once, at the time I was dating him and we were out of condoms, so he just asked me if it was ok if we'd do it without one and without even thinking I said yes. I felt really bad about it afterwards, I won't do it again.

[chbear]

I did it once, at the time I was dating him and we were out of condoms, so he just asked me if it was ok if we'd do it without one and without even thinking I said yes. I felt really bad about it afterwards, I won't do it again.

I am grateful for your testimony; we want to spread the news that sex with a condom is hotter than bareback sex, especially with the risk factor of bareback.

[sbsb86]

yeah it would be nice

[italiandaddy]

Is a very risky behavior. You never really know what your boyfriend did before you! Use safe sex!

[beaubear64]

Damn shame you guys don't know what it's REALLY all about.

[pasdeloup]

don't do it please, i know its not easy to stop.

[Arab2008]

not safe
safe sex always

[geisha]

Yup, safe sex always... pls bear in mind! :)

I may be desperate to break my virginity... but still, safe sex always! ;)


Cheers... to safe sex!
Geisha

[gush]

NOOOooo! Well maybe You. hmmmmmmmmmm

[gush]

My Pleasure!!

[ButtyBoy]

I don't mind admitting that I do have bare sex from time to time and I tend to believe that most people do it but that most don't want to admit it. We all know the riscs and I think we all have the right to decide ourselves to have safe or unsafe sex and who to have it with. I personally refuse to suck cock with a condom because I might as well suck a banana with a condom around it.. I don't want to taste rubber when I suck cock! Unprotected anal sex is another story for me; I don't have unsafe anal sex with just anyone who comes along. I have my own criteria for deciding who gets to fuck me without a condom and at what point but I'll keep those criteria to myself. I always make sure that whatever I do; it is MY decision. I do think however that everyone who ever has bare sex should take the responsibility to test himself for STDs frequently.

Ignoring that bare sex happens a LOT is just silly and I know because I have a lot of sex and a lot of different sexpartners and 99% of them want to fuck me without rubber!

Men/people are very weird when it comes down to bare sex. A while back I did some 'testing' in a chat room. I chatted with a guy and he on his turn tested me by asking if I wanted his hot cum up my ass. I said YES. I didn't actually mean it because I didn't know the guy at all and when people ask questions like that too quickly I get suspicious.. He replied that he didn't want to have sex with me knowing that I let myself fuck without a condom by strangers. I exited the chat room and logged in with another nickname and the guy started talking to me again. Appearantly I was what he was looking for, and vice versa. He asked me the same question but this time I replied; 'hey, I don't even know you! Come on!'. We talked some more and eventually we actually dated. And guess what? The guy wanted to fuck me WITHOUT a condom. At the point he wanted to penetrate me I stopped him and gave him a condom. I think this is what happens a lot; people test each other and they want to believe that by doing that they know enough about their partners to make their decision to have safe or unsafe sex. But fact is that we never really know if someone is telling the truth, do we? Men are hunters and I believe that even if they have everything they need that they still want more, simply because hunting is their nature. I don't think that 'my type of guy' could be monogamous in long term relationship so what this in mind it would mean that I could never ever have bare sex, simply 'cause my man would still be hunting.. I am just 100% sure that bare sex happens a LOT and I think that by forbidding it or judging it - like most people in this thread do - the idea of having bare sex is only going to be more attractive to a certain group of people.

[Dumbledore]

Great reply, ButtyBoy.

Bare sex is definitely much more fun than protected sex, but I wouldn't do it just with anyone. Some people might say that they trust their partner and so on, but I don't think you could trust anyone in this issue because, especially now when HIV rates are rapidly increasing, bareback is really not a game and could cost your life. However, if I met a guy and we entered a serious relationship, I would suggest that we both go and undergo an HIV test together just that we can be sure that it's safe to have unprotected sex and to fix our trust of one another, and after that, I'll be willing to do bareback. But, as ButtyBoy said, "..if they have everything they need that they still want more..", that means that undergoing the test and the fact that we're in a serious relationship does not assure me that my partner wouldn't go looking for another guys, and here it's only a matter of faith and getting to know your partner well enough.

[ButtyBoy]

Dumbledore, great to see you again!

It is a matter of trust I guess but who can you really trust in matters like these.. Think about all the relationships that are being ended because one of the two turned out to be fucking around. When the other finds out about it it might just be too late. Do you know what I mean? And someone could be sleeping around for years without the other ever finding out about it.. I'm not saying that I don't trust anyone. I'm just saying that I think I know what (most) men are like, and I don't even blame them. It's nature I guess. I just wanna be realistic about it and have realistic expectations and make my own decisions about safe/unsafe sex.

[bulls40]

i always play safe,it's not worth it,just use more lube,i neve had problemes with condoms,why ,be after,sorry????

[friendly]

Thanks very much guys for the explanations.... actually i did it with my X... we were in relation for 10 years...... but it is over now... and i think if i involved in any new relation ... i will never make that mistake..... bing safe is the most important.

[meghji]

I would never go bareback - its just not worth the risk

[tur0]

If you know the guy really well, sure why not

[chbear]

If you know the guy really well, sure why not

Because he might be barebacking other people who are HIV+, that's why.

[phoenixtr]

bareback in monogamous and "healthy" (tested) relationships ok.. otherwise forget it.

[silentsoul99]

yea i would

[p4upm]

i luv bb

but i dont think i will do it with a stranger, i will definitly consider it in ltrs.

[bulls40]

bareback is not worth it,you are playing with your life and of others,just be logic?????with your lover it;s diferrent,and since ,condoms are cheap,

[HAIQUAN]

please tell me how to got bareback sex , I really don't know what's bareback sex .

[bulls40]

bareback sex mean,you have sex without condom!!!!!!

[Vizier_Aken]

It depends on the guy, and how much I trust him to be honest. If it's just sex, then condom is mandatory. If its a guy I'm in a relationship with, and can see myself with for a long time, I may well let him have his bt of fun every now and then :]

[putinho78]

I don't like!!

[gqgq69x]

I dont kno it hurtsss

[Marokkaanse]

Yeah!!!!!!!

[Marokkaanse]

Hahah sorry!

[zaubermut]

No never bareback

[zeiss]

No condom, no party.

[bulls40]

it's a choice,everyone knows what he wants,but playing safe is always better

[titoelgen512]

i love barebacking

[bulls40]

sure ,who does not love barebacking, but what will happen if your parner is infected and does not tell you???????????

[niceneasy]

Frankly speaking, sometimes I do it.

[SXTZ]

Never No condom means no respect no future! Bareback is dangerous stamp it out, other than the big disease there are other health risks, if ever you should contemplate bareback then you better make sure that you and your partner's flavours are safe.
Take the example from Pete Burns (lead singer of Dead or Alive) who got married only to discover his husband with whom naturally he had not been using a condom had been playing around on him and his flavour was unsafe.
O and seriously you aren't with someone 24h a day so you can't really be sure of what they are saying if it is the truth or not. But you can protect yourself by having any lover use a condom and you using it too.

[uptightlimey]

Bareback sex - no condoms...

Only with someone VERY special, and only if we're both being regularly tested as a matter of routine.

[jeje22]

i did it so many times with the same guy and it feels better but it makes the top guy cums faster

[CoastBear]

Bareback sex feels so good, but it's so dangerous. I'd still do it with someone I really liked

[Polarcoffee]

I'm top...I personally prefer bareback...but I always respect the guy's opinion, whom i was having sex with...if he wants protected safe, i dont mind wearing condom...

[pohbear]

i have, when i trusted the guy i was with.
it's not a common practice for me.

[Scott747]

Here in the US lots of young men seem to be barebaking more wihout knowing if their partners are postive or negative. I make it a rule not to bareback unless both my partner and me get tested. I get myself tested twice a year no matter what. Even though AIDS isn't the immediate death sentence it once was, it is still a deadly disease with no cure.

[sakros]

no I have never thought to do that,,that is risky for getting HIV

[Scott747]

To Sakros:

I know what it's like to be gay in India - have been there many times and have relatives there. Please, for your own health and well-beiing get yourself tested. there are many clinics in Delhi where you can get tested for the AIDS virus for free or for a few rupees.. It's SO IMPORTANT. I have a friend in Delhi who died from complications from AIDS. (it's rearely the AIDS virus itself that causes death, typically it is oppotunistic infections (like pheumonia for example) that actually kill people. And three friends here in the US. The problem in India is that homosexuality is still illegal (as if any of us had a choice in the matter) and, therefore, it's hard to get straight (pardon the pun)_ information on what you need to do to prevent the transmission of the AIDS virus. Condoms are far and away the most effefctive means of preventing the transmission of the AIDS virus (except for not having sex at all) and if you are going to have sex with someone that you don't know if he is negative or positive (does have or does not have the AIDS virus in this body) then PLEASE use a condom. It's so important. Nothing - even fantastic, mind blowing, cock destroying sex - is as important to you than being safe when you have sex with your lover. Please, don't let this horrible, horrible disease into you life. It will be then end of your life. Oh, and let me say, for the record, that I love barebacking (particulalry with an Arab guy that I love) - there's nothing like it. But just be absolutley sure that your partner is negative.

Please play safe.

Scott

[Ramzi1000]

Barebacking is not safe...for now it only live in my fantasy

[Murat]

Never, although I have been tempted.I hate condoms. Golden rule if you are gay. people NEVER tell the truth when it comes to sex. I know couples who have had barebck sex believing their partner when he said he was not sleeping around only to find out it was a lie. Would you want to live in Syria, or Algeria or Libya and be HIV or have hepatis C? Twice I came close to breaking my rule. part of me knows I am missing something good. when it comes to sex we forget logic. I have a gay Turkish friend who held his gay cousin died of Aids in his arms yet he has sex with as usually at least ten guys a week, all bareback!. So the bottom line we each have to choose but when guy says he loves you and would never have sex with another guy, don't believe him

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[ArmenianGuy]

only if i trust the guy, and trust includes just happening to walk by a place where they do std screenings and suggesting we should pop in. I love having sex with men, but no man is worth any std, whether it's hiv or just warts, i don't care how good he looks.

[Seda]

When I am in a closed relationship and we have both been tested I feel pretty free to have unprotected sex. Otherwise not!

[h_lonely]

yes but never did it

[pressj85]

No bareback sex, too many STDs going around

[sportskater]

just keep it safe.

[hornycamboy]

ownly with my boyfriend :)

[palguy]

ho is that bareback?

[palguy]

it seems nice

[fellow_boi]

I am affraid of bareback unless I know the person really well and can trust them.. I guess my thoughts aren't different than anyone else though... I think it's better for sure! just don't want to catch anything though...

[klites]

with the one i love, i wouldn't mind, but i have to know that he is clean!

[gsdfargo]

Of course...the reason I have sex is to get that sperm buddy. If I dont get the prize, I aint suckin it.

Dude...this is a very irresponsible answer, especially on this site. There could be some younger guys reading your flippant reply... your ID is beaubear64, and if that means you are 64 years of age...then lucky you that you managed to live that long by swallowing and doing bareback. But give others a chance to live that long too...

[minime]

:D a daring question indeed!
well, im thinkin i WOULD have bareback sex on passion rather than by principle.
You should never DO bareback :S:S

[Amed sheng]

i don't know but when we lived with someone for a while we have trust them more and you will feel condom is not necessary anymore... But as you see ourgay partner've got many guysi don't want to take this risk.....

[nab4me]

No way will I participate in bareback sex, except with my boyfriend who I have a longstanding relation with. I always use protection when having sex with others and expect them to do the same. If they don't want to use it, then the game is off, I value my life too much.

[forthbridge]

I travel quite a lot and have quite a few friends from different parts of the middle east who like to have sex with men. They all say that they are not gay and all have safer sex but when you talk to them they regard safe sex as pulling their dick out before they cum. In most cases they don't seem to like using condoms and it is only when they find out that they won't be able to fuck me without one that they change their minds. One doctor I know in London always tells me that he is allergic to latex and can't wear one, another friend who I sometimes meet in Bahrain says that putting on a condom immediately makes his dick go soft. One Tunisian guy in France that I know makes a great show of putting on a condom but when he penetrates you feel bare flesh and realise that after your back is turned he rips it open.Has anyone elase found this

[pharaoh]

To answer your question freindly - Bareback is having anal sex with out a condom. This should only should be practiced when you know your partner and his sexsual history for a long time.

I agree with you 100%

[zackojozef]

I like it too much &will do it with every dick even if idont like the man then its like raping and i love it

[Murat]

What is more important to you sex or life? To have bareback sex with anybody you meet that is prepared to fuck you just because you have a fantasy about being raped is not only dangerous it is stupid. I have seen what HIV can do to men. They were lucky at least they lived in England and got help and support. Ifyou want to run the risk of having unprotected sex and, becoming infected and seekling help in Syria as a gay madn good luck. It is your right. What is not your right is to run the risk of infecting others. Real se is not a fantasy and as in all things real it has consequences. Get a life, not a fatasy!

[Murat]

sorry about the typos in my last posting. They get bad when I get angry.

[Davnic]

Would suggest bareback sex only with long term and tested for HIV partner- as I do.

[noelie]

One Tunisian guy in France that I know makes a great show of putting on a condom but when he penetrates you feel bare flesh and realise that after your back is turned he rips it open.Has anyone elase found this
The very first guy I had sex with after I came out last year did that and I cursed at him till the air went blue and threw him out :mad:

[Davnic]

Never had that happen but if uncertain usually have a feel in the appropriate area half way through!

[andres60660]

love bareback and do it all the time!

[foruse]

I travel quite a lot and have quite a few friends from different parts of the middle east who like to have sex with men. They all say that they are not gay and all have safer sex but when you talk to them they regard safe sex as pulling their dick out before they cum. In most cases they don't seem to like using condoms and it is only when they find out that they won't be able to fuck me without one that they change their minds.

All Arab men who have fucked me (mostly Egyptians and Morroccans) have done it bare, and I have never been able to resist, simply because I love it. I think it is a question of masculinity to them, and submission on my part.

[1thatseeks]

in my last relationship, i did do it becuase my partner hated condoms.. we did get tested once every 6 months. Its the best, the shear rawness of it is really too much for me. it was difficult becuase it hurt more at first, but after a while i got used to it. I know it definitely makes a difference in terms of sensitivity. When i topped, if i haven't topped frequently it takes only a few minutes, but for my partner he could just place it inside me an he'd be ready to explode. however i did it my bf of 3 yrs... this obviously shouldn't be done by strangers or even a guy you know...if practiced at all, it should only been done in LTR's

[Angelboy1269]

Bare back is sex without a condom. And if you are like me you HATE condoms.

[slaveboi836]

i definitely want it bareback for my first time, and i think it will be hard to say no to a big sexy Arab guy who knows what he wants from me...

i think it is better to be safe, but if we both get a check up then you can cum inside me as much as you like.

[ali96744]

it feels good but the risk of vd makes it not worth it.

[Dark Side]

While I know it's wrong and stuff, I really would want to give it a go at least once.

[htfrank30]

i would try bareback especially with any hot hung Arab men in L.A., CA

[mjastivski]

Would you consider having "bareback" sex ?
A very daring question , but it have to be asked .
please say the truth only chat members

Yeah sure.. I mean, why not? To be honest, I know condoms do provide protection and stuff, but it feels as if some silicon tube is being pushed inside of me or as if I'm jerking off with a plastic bag.

[randy richar]

Just love barebacking Skin to skin wwith no rubber in the wa to reduce sensitivity:tongue:

[iamalegend]

well it doesnt worth it,,,
really believe me,,
the bad of barebacking and the risks are much more than its benefits and pleasure..
so no Barebackin no matter what,,
coz trusting is a very intense issue,,
so dont do it,,jst 4 u,,,not 4 anyone else