non-arabs:Do you like arabs for sex only or would you like a relationship with us?

[soy_yo]

First I'm sorry my english sucks lol I am arab I was born in Spain and I love european men I would love to have a german,french,british,european american boyfriend Because I don't like arab guys and I don't like spanirds but I don't know If you nordic,Gaul and celt guys are interested in a serious relationship with an arab guy

[geisha]

Hi Soy Yo,

U're still young...
I'm getting old, so... for love or sex it makes no difference to me anymore...
Bottom line is... when is it going to happen to me?!!! :rolleyes:
When will it be my turn?!!!


Never say never...
Geisha

[vagabond]

hi soy yo,

yes, i'd love to have relationship with arab guy (or any kind of guy, really). as long as the guy is sweet and respectful to me, that's what is important. but, i agree arab guys are really hot... wish there were more gay arabs who are out and interested in relationships!

:)

[geisha]

Sex or a serious relationship, I want both!


Give it to me!
:rolleyes: Geisha

[ttravis69]

I would love to have a relationship with an arabic man. I don't rule anyone out if it's the right guy.

[bigboper]

I would love to have a relationship with an arabic or a Latin man.:D

[maturelondon]

many younger arab men would love to have a relationship, provided they could cope with family pressures ... some of them are lucky enough ...

[hestusjon]

I'm sure it's different for each person. There are tops and bottoms of every color. I am mixed and bisexual so I get a lot of confusion from people trying to put me in a catagory. Plus with my ethnic origins, Black, White, Mid-Eastern, Native American all in one person - I get people thinking I'm from an Arab country all the time. I have this very long hair so sometimes I wair a turban type hat and people really react to that.

Many peeps here seem to be non-arabs who fantasize about Arabian men. 1001 Arabian nights huh? Anyway - say hi if you want to chat.

Jon

[Murat]

It's a Western thing, Western men have fanatasies about Arab men (classing all arabs as the same wherever they come from and not really interesteed in whether they are from Tunisia, Jordan or whereever. In England in the sixties gay men used to head out to Morocco becaue the boys were cheap Read the playright Joe Orton's diaries. Arab boys even in their own country were only there to be fucked, the cheaper the better. Relationships work where there is respect on both sides. I am a turk and we get the same thing. You are sitting in a bar and up comes a guy with a fanatasy he's got after seeing too many holiywood b movies. What used to piss me off was those who thought they were doing me a favour by wanting sex (westerner and the poor turk). If anygay Arab or Turk living in Europe or the states is reading this I bet they know exactly what I mean. Thankfully, things are changing for the better. Give us arabs (and Turks) some rerspect and we will reciprocate!

[hestusjon]

I agree Murat - I never met a more sensitive hard working guy - just wish I could meet another one.

[Page]

I adore arab guys especially from Egypt, Tunesia, Morocco. They are mostly simple but hot enough to play with. The arabs from the Emirates are quite snobbish. And they have more money so they treat you like dirt sometimes.

[vagabond]

you're right to point out this orientalism, murat, which as you said still exists but is gradually declining (at least, we hope so!)... it's something i am careful about because, while i am definitely attracted to arabs, berbers, turks, persians, etc., i never want to become guilty of "fetishizing" somebody... also i would never assume they are all the same or that i'm doing them a favor by giving sex.... in the end, a strong connection based on mutual humanity is most important!

[Murat]

Thanks "Vagabound" for the respect you show us. And "Page" you prove my point Arabs from Eygpyt, Tunisia and Morroco are simple" but hot enough to play with. The people of threee countries all put into one convenient basket called "sexual grattification on the cheap". The superior Westerner using Arabs as sexuall playthings. Meet one from the Emirates who can match you for wealth and they become "snobby" . But then they don't need your money! But "cheap sex is all it appears to be about. Where is the respect one human being has the right to respect from another whether he be Arab,Turk or Swiss

[loveseeker]

I want to begin by saying that Arabic Men are the best lovers by far!!!!.....and in my opinion no other man can compare to them!!!!. My life will be complete when I have an Arab husband... ....I am a gay American man and understand what it is like to be stereotyped.....both here in the states and more importantly by Arab men in other countries. .. I am not looking for a hook up like most shallow gays on this sight are...I do not want to sleep with an Arab man just to say I slept with one.......or check him off my list of fantasies so I can move on to the next one...........I am different.......when I look into an Arab man's eyes I see the fire that burns inside of him... his passion for life....your race is one of the oldest in the world.....your knowledge is deep and wisdom is vast....I feel this...see this... and like a magnet I am drawn to this in you. You are sincere and honest...when you say something you mean it! A man of his word is so important to me and so is honesty...as you can tell by my writing I live by that rule.. Family and friends are so very import to you.....you are there to support and help them...I respect this so much...my family is very important to me also......in this day and age it is a rare thing to see........So i know a committed relationship with an Arab man is a committed relationship you are family to each other..........I feel safe when I am in your presence, because i know how much you value life and like a shield you will protect me......You are masculine, but in touch with your feelings, you communicate with touch it means nothing to you to touch another man...because you are secure in you masculinity. You also have an innocence to you and I can see the boy in you when you find something new, exciting, humorous..I am delight by it.....That does not mean you are perfect...because disagreements and augments happen in every-ones life...and those to are heated and full of passion too...but you know what...the best part of fighting is the making up after the fight.
I hope I answered you question about wanting a serious relationship with an Arabic man..........I am speaking from experience...... so can you answer me a question......WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND A GAY ARAB MAN FOR A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP?:confused:
Michael

[maturelondon]

I adore arab guys especially from Egypt, Tunesia, Morocco. They are mostly simple but hot enough to play with. The arabs from the Emirates are quite snobbish. And they have more money so they treat you like dirt sometimes.

I think it is wrong to generalize about arab men from the Emirates ... some of them probably snobish but many others very nice guys. And for sure, as you said they have more money, fewer rent boys ...

[geisha]

Hey,

So does that explain why its more difficult for me to find encounters in Dubai... hope I'm wrong cos I'll be there again this June, and I'm actually looking forward to it for something to happen more than ever!

Well, its nothing surprising since they do look more refined, more exposed and like what u guys have said, they've got more money... so naturally, they've got more choices opened to them.

Think I should plan another trip tp some other Middle Eastern places instead of sticking to Dubai... :rolleyes:


Wish me luck then...
Geisha

[Murat]

Geisha your problem is two fold. Many arab men simply prefer to have sex with other Arab men because it is less obvious in a soceity where sex between men is a taboo. If your weathly enough you simply fly out and look elsewhere. You have more chance meeting a man from Dubai in London than in Dubai itself. The other problem is that "cruising" in arab ccountries is so subtle you would probably not notice. In Istanbul and Antalya ok not Arab but similar problems. the main cruise areas are packed with tourists. you really have to observe very closely to notice it is going on. There are, so it is rumoured a couple of gay "bars" in AbuDab. In short, if you don't go looking for it, but just observe, you will find and it is likely to be somewhere busy rather than deserted where people generally go to meet and socialise.is could bea shoppingmall or one of dubai's men only beeches A mate of mine fromDubai mentioned a bar called i80. but he had only heard of it not ben.

Good luck. If all else fails go to Morocco, Berbers are lovely people. The place is cheaper, beautiful, and does not look like a large buiding site broken up by hotels and shopping malls!

[vagabond]

Hi Murat, interesting information. I was in Istanbul last summer and absolutely loved it... I noticed a few guys smiling at me on the street, but I did not approach them or vice versa. Interestingly at the gay bar I visited, however, the men seemed more aloof... People were polite but the music was loud, I don't speak Turkish, and so I only danced alone amongst the others. It's a shame I could not meet any Turkish friends but they probably knew I was just a tourist, and besides the cordial atmosphere was kind of nice... not sleazy at all.

What do you think, is it hard to meet gay men in Istanbul? I fell in love with that city and would even consider living there one day if I find work...

Also, a friend of mine told me that Turks (outside of Istanbul) are very conservative, even more conservative than many Saudis! I found this hard to believe... what do you think?

[ButtyBoy]

I would love to have a relationship with an Arab guy but I stopped looking for it. It is Mission Impossible... I'm not putting any more energy into that. If there is an Arab guy somewhere out there who wants a relationship with me then he should make some effort to find and seduce ME. Until that day I'll stick to just sex with Arab guys, which seems to be the only thing they are interested in anyway.

[ButtyBoy]

By the way, what does get to me is realising that culture and religion is the biggest problem in this matter. It makes me very sad that I (and he) are not having this wonderful thing just because culture and religion do not approve homosexuality. I sometimes hate myself for not being attracted to caucasian guys because that would make my life SO much easier. But I can't help it, I just don't fancy caucasian guys.

[Murat]

But that's the great irony. It is his culture and his religion that makes him what he is and it is that which attracts you . He has atributes you find lacking in caucasian men. Trust me I know being in a relationship with somone from the middle east requires you to make so many sacrifices. More than anthing else it is the secrecy that drives you crackers. with my partner for a decade the Edgeware Road (the heart of the Arab area of London) was a no go zone just in case we bumped into his brother (who knows now and still has not met me). I did think in the early years if only I had met an Englishman life would have been so much easier. The truth is that, I fell in love, corney I know, and we continued our relationship despite the odds. Do I regret it no absolutely not. I really do beleive that you know when you have met the person right for you. The luck and the good fortune is when that person feels the same about you. The life of your average gay guy is one night stands going on and on and on. Its the same the world over. If my partner and I were to split that is the one thing I would hate the most going bace to lone visits to bars on the pick up, exchanging phone numbers knowing neither one of you will ring the over. The trick is to separate love from sex. Enjoy the one night stand You wil in your heart know when it is love and if it means making sacrifices make them, put up with grief and see it through. true love comes so rarely into our lives to riisk losing it.

[geisha]

Hi ButtyBoy,

I hate to admit it but I kinda agree with u totally.
I've not really been through a relationship yet... and I used to tell myself that I should always focus more on finding a serious relationship instead of sleeping around.
But now I've realised how silly I was then... I've wasted most of my time, and I've sort of given up hope... I'm more prepared now to just have plain fun sex rather than expecting too much out of it.


Try convincing me...
Geisha

[sony15]

Hellow! I have a relationship with an arab boy, and it isn´t only for the sex, of course!

[mikeblond40]

yes, no one wants to be treated fetishistically, like an object.

[atha72]

i would married one :-)

[smooth]

would love a nice guy for a LTR-would prefer mid east ,but any nice man is what matters

[scanner]

I saw so many hot guys in Egypt on vacation in March. I never realized how sexy Arab men are. Only turn off was the yellow teeth. Otherwise these guys were paradise.

[marzuq]

i'm not exactly big on "relationships," with a woman or man, but one reason i am more attracted to men is that you can have a friendship with sex but it's possible to avoid a marraige-type possession situation, provided your "friend" is of the same mind. Arab men, mainly bisexuals, have taught me this and i am very greatful to them. :o

[FuckMe]

most arabs want sex only

[sireno]

Sex is most of the times good, it's more difficult to find the right man, when he comes along it should be fine, it's just a question to respect each other in order to have better sex and a rich a relationship

[smooth]

yes this is my thought exactly--

[numerobis]

In my opinion a relationship also would fit if the personal qualities of each other are accepted. I think you must make a compromise - like in every relationship, independent from the race

[beaubear64]

Its all good buddy:)

[suckr4men]

Living in the pleasure of a relationship knowing that the one you love is the one who loves you & he happens to be of an ethnicity you favor - all the better.

[coolmars_lds]

thats great... i just think that if we need respect as non arab they need also...

[Silva]

Just sex for me. In relationships I'm straight lol
I like the idea of friendships with sex, buddies that we can rely on sexually too

[smooth]

sounds like being on the dl,,,,,,,,,,

[smooth]

sex with friends is great but love is nice too,with a good man

[Silva]

What does "dl" means?

[Adel22]

It's a Western thing, Western men have fanatasies about Arab men (classing all arabs as the same wherever they come from and not really interesteed in whether they are from Tunisia, Jordan or whereever. In England in the sixties gay men used to head out to Morocco becaue the boys were cheap Read the playright Joe Orton's diaries. Arab boys even in their own country were only there to be fucked, the cheaper the better. Relationships work where there is respect on both sides. I am a turk and we get the same thing. You are sitting in a bar and up comes a guy with a fanatasy he's got after seeing too many holiywood b movies. What used to piss me off was those who thought they were doing me a favour by wanting sex (westerner and the poor turk). If anygay Arab or Turk living in Europe or the states is reading this I bet they know exactly what I mean. Thankfully, things are changing for the better. Give us arabs (and Turks) some rerspect and we will reciprocate!



In Europe, people don't make difference between a Turk or Moroccan, Algerian. A Turk is for European an Arab. Like almost Moroccan are not Arab but Berber and in Algeria they are Kabyle etc..
But in Europe and America, the majority don't make a difference.
For them, Turk is Arab. Like Iranian are for them Arab.

It's like in North Africa who a lot of people use the word 'Aromi' to talk about European. Especally berber who the word 'aromi' (mean : The Romans). They don't make diffence too with a french, Portugese or Albanian. For them it's the same thing.

[suckr4men]

What does "dl" means?
"dl" means: down low. Being on the dl is deceitful, to keep a secret, having a game/sex part on the side, etc.

[joerg]

I am also interested in relationship with an Arab.

[xq28]

sex, is just like an intro. a beggining.

if i got one and he treat me good, feel comfy with him, and he just feel the same, then making relationship will be a great sequel.

and of course, i'm not anly talking about arabian race, it could be anyone, whoever.

[FatPapiNY]

Yes... all to the above as long as he accepts my condition of polyamorphism. I do not want a monogamous closed relationship. I have a lover and two boyfriends now. I am blessed not greedy :D

[FatPapiNY]

"dl" means: down low. Being on the dl is deceitful, to keep a secret, having a game/sex part on the side, etc.

I understand most people having problems with "DL" guys but not all cultures are accepting and welcoming as others and some will punish you with death. Do you still think it is wrong for them to be "DL"?:(

[smooth]

my fat papi,,,,i didn't know u was here,,,i can dig what you say ,,,being dl is not always a bad thing ,,,,,

[daedin]

Coming back to the topic: I'd prefer to have sex with arab more, than to build any relation. It's more tasty ;) :P

[geisha]

Coming back to the topic: I'd prefer to have sex with arab more, than to build any relation. It's more tasty ;) :P

Hmmm... agree, given me the chance, I'd also just have clean fun sex with an Arab guy... sorry, but I don't really have much faith in a successful LTR with an Arab guy.


Love ;)
Geisha

[smooth]

well you never know,,,when it hits you'll love it

[corvin30]

For a relationship of course!

[Hollandguy]

No, as a guy who is living in the Netherlands I respect Arabic guys because of the people that they are. For me they aren’t meat, for me they are humans who will like our friendship.

I have some great Arabic guys that call me their friend.

[smooth]

of course a relationship i still say ,you never know,,,a relationship may be right around the corner

[andre]

I'd like to have a relationship with an arab guy...

[volimv]

I'd like to have sex with arab men

[johnny]

yes i would like a relationschip with a arab guy. why not.:)

[eyeshaveit]

:)

My first introduction to the Arab world was the incredibly handsome Omar Sharif in Lawrence of Arabia. Since then I have dreamed of finding an Arab man who would be able to appreciate an older man particularly in a committed relationship. Sex is wonderful, but only a part of the totality. My ultimate goal is a legal marriage in Toronto, a life in the U.S.

[TomIN]

I would like a strong relationship with an Arab man that would hopefully lead to sex.

[eleas]

thanks alot for all
yes not all arab is bad
iam syrian boy yes but iam not terorist as alot of peopel think i love all peopel
i hope any ony add me at yahoo or msn
eleas.shark[AT]yahoo.com
dina-haik[AT]hotmail.com

[TomIN]

Eleas you know I love you:)

[darren]

I'd like a relationship with a loving Arab guy but until then I will settle for just the sex!

[troni]

maybe great in future

[dav_willy37]

looking for a real guy to make me fell good always

[dav_willy37]

any body there to respond to me

[TomIN]

I am looking for someone too. Wish you were closer:)

[uptightlimey]

I'd do either or both... depends on them - I'd never dismiss the possibility.

[latinboi]

I have this one friend, he's from Iraq and i have been crushing on him for a good 2 years now, recently i just earned his trust and i'm real close with this guy, for some reason i can never stop loving him, everytime i talk to him it's like my whole day lightens up!
there are times where i think he's hitting on me, but he clearly stated he hated gays and would burn them, but i still really love him. I highly doubt he's gay but at least we're real close. He is the most trustworthy person i have ever met. So easy going and loves soccer! like me haha. He is so perfect for me, but it's not meant to be. But yeah there are some arabian men who are all just about the sex. But most are About their Religion,Family,Friends..I love these people because they remind me alot of my people too, we're so identical it's funny, But yeah i would love to be in a relationship with an arab...

[Polarcoffee]

I like Arab guys...I do wanna keep a LTR with Arab...but thats not easy...
so, i dont mind starting with fun, and see if we can move forward...

[martin_weber]

a relationship is very importent for my but i like sex too..



sorry for my bad english - i learn it

[Seda]

I have had both LTR and purely sexual relationships with Arab guys in the past. The difficulty I have experience in LTR's is that many of the Arab guys I have met are quite closeted and not open about their sexuality and I am very open. This difference tends to put a strain on the relationship and makes it tough to keep going. I guess I am really comfortable in caring, loving relationships if the other guy is completely comfortable with himself and open about his sexuality, despite whatever cultural or ethnic group they identify with.
In a purely sexual relationship, I really don't care about this stuff as our relationship is mostly physical and not social and emotional.

[loverboy]

they are nice

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[toranaga_1]

primary for me is a relationship, but when i find the right Gay................ ;-)

[gaygay99]

Relationship all the way..I love the feeling of havin a man there in my life just for me

[Aliston]

I am wish have a long term relationship with arab top guys....

[azar14libnan]

i would like both! i agree with vagabond...as long as he is a good person and loves me than i would be in a relationship with him!

[JCangel]

I prefer to know the person I am with, a relationship is important to me. I don't understand the need for one night stands that lead nowhere. Love and respect is important.

Jc

[RomanSexToy]

Soy Yo,

I lived in Southern Spain for four-years and loved every minute I was there. To answer your question: I would love to have a serious relationship with an Arab man. To me the sex is nice but there is much more than that...I love the talking...the dating...the times, I can lay in his arms and listen to his heart-beat; [I]thump, thump, thump! I am a hopeless romantic!

Although, I am American...my personality has always been very European. My grnadfather came from Sweden and my grandmother and others were from England and Germany. Thats why I love Europe so much!

If i had an Arab BF or partner, I would treat him as he should be... (1) the love of my life (2) my equal.

I just find them sexy!

cheers,

Roman

[gsdfargo]

Definitely a relationship! Not just for sex...I do not view Arab men as only an object. I would like the relationship to be a partnership with alot of sharing. And that means sharing on my part as well. That means observing Muslim holidays as well as observing my holidays. That means learning Arabic as well as he learning English...etc etc.

[michael072]

In my social private life I have te luxery of friends of all kind of origin. Its not only the sex thats counts, nevertheless a important issue in a relationship. But sometimes I can be very attractive to a men without the feeling to have a relationship with that person. Otherwise, there are some friends, also middle east- were I have only the friendship with them because the are straight. Sometimes life is hard haha. But respect is also what counts. And friendship is sometimes more worthy to me then de the sex.

[minibee]

one reason that i love arabs men bcoz they're so hot with sexy facial hair and the way when they're acting :)

[DmanR]

I've never been with an Arab guy even though they turn me on to the fullest! I think I could date an Arab man, it all depends on who he is not what he is

[plezeer]

Yes ofcourse i want a relationship.... more friendship now... i have a bery nice partner. i wanna to learn from all of U

[JCangel]

relationships are always preferable, a meeting of minds as well as bodies is always sexy.

Jc

[ce83]

I want an arab top for a relationship!

[blau_bleu78]

I don't do 1 nite stand so i prefer to have a good relationship. i and my arab bf r happy with our relationship n i never see someone for his money or rich or wotever. People tend to see people who come from world-third-country as being poor n use relationship for something else. the most important thing in having a relationship is to accept ur partner for who they r n respect each other.

[dalmatino]

i had arab boyfriend in whom i have been deeply in love. unfortunately he was cheating on me and manipulating both me and my family, which i will not forget for my whole life. unfortunately, i was used just as a fucktoy. after this, i met other arab men and even started a new relationship, but the second one was similar to the first one... since then i meet arabs only for sex...

[Xerxes]

I'm sure that every Arab man is different, just like all non-Arabs are different from each other. My attraction for Arab men is strictly physical. I want a dark, masculine man who exudes testosterone (all over me). The "dark" for me is in skin quality. As a White man, I am bored with the pale skin. I prefer a look that's more earthy and stable looking. As for friends, anyone can be a friend with the right attitudes.

[thegiantweb]

Personnaly I have a serious contact with an very handsome arab who lives in Dubi (UAE). I met him a year ago. Since a whil he thought to immigrate in Canada, but the simple way for him would be to come as "stranger student" (A person comming from an other country studying in Canada) So I seriously consider to help him and even sponsor him... He's 27 years old, very nice and extremly handsome. So I like the ides to have him in my house while he will study, then 12 mounts before he will have finish his degree, he'll be allowed to work in Canada and ask for his citizenship from canada too and not from his country as it used to be... SoYES I would love to have a relationship with that guy... and having sex with him is so wonderful. He gots a very athetic hairy body and his hand are so solf and warm. mmmmmmmmmmmmmm Is that anwer that question of: non-arabs:Do you like arabs for sex only or would you like a relationship with us?

[eugene]

i love both...arab guys ona seriouse hot relationship!!

[darrel arans]

i like how strong in mind and body arab men are. and i like to be treated like a 'queen" from arab men. to do all the things a "wifey" is supposed to do for the arabic man in bed and out. to me there are no other men on earth that can match the beauty, sexuality, and stamina of men from arab countries and those here in america, england, canada, or wherever, they are just the very best in manhood totally.

darrel arans

[htfrank30]

yes i would to like to have a relationship with an arab man i think there hot and sexy plus most have big thick dicks, and i would an arab man to fuck me and let me suck his big cock, deep throat that cock i don't care how big his cock is and i would love him with all my heart and soul. htfrank30 here message me here or e-mail if you are a top arab man looking for relationship with hot attractive bottom my e-mail frankredfire30[AT]yahoo.com i'm in Los Angeles, CA USA

[nasser]

I want to begin by saying that Arabic Men are the best lovers by far!!!!.....and in my opinion no other man can compare to them!!!!. My life will be complete when I have an Arab husband... ....I am a gay American man and understand what it is like to be stereotyped.....both here in the states and more importantly by Arab men in other countries. .. I am not looking for a hook up like most shallow gays on this sight are...I do not want to sleep with an Arab man just to say I slept with one.......or check him off my list of fantasies so I can move on to the next one...........I am different.......when I look into an Arab man's eyes I see the fire that burns inside of him... his passion for life....your race is one of the oldest in the world.....your knowledge is deep and wisdom is vast....I feel this...see this... and like a magnet I am drawn to this in you. You are sincere and honest...when you say something you mean it! A man of his word is so important to me and so is honesty...as you can tell by my writing I live by that rule.. Family and friends are so very import to you.....you are there to support and help them...I respect this so much...my family is very important to me also......in this day and age it is a rare thing to see........So i know a committed relationship with an Arab man is a committed relationship you are family to each other..........I feel safe when I am in your presence, because i know how much you value life and like a shield you will protect me......You are masculine, but in touch with your feelings, you communicate with touch it means nothing to you to touch another man...because you are secure in you masculinity. You also have an innocence to you and I can see the boy in you when you find something new, exciting, humorous..I am delight by it.....That does not mean you are perfect...because disagreements and augments happen in every-ones life...and those to are heated and full of passion too...but you know what...the best part of fighting is the making up after the fight.
I hope I answered you question about wanting a serious relationship with an Arabic man..........I am speaking from experience...... so can you answer me a question......WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND A GAY ARAB MAN FOR A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP?:confused:
Michael
there is no one reason for that , usually the reason is that they sometimes feel guilty , cause socity is not fully accepting the idea of 2 men being together for good. guilty cause there families have bigger expectation for them , at least in my opinion thats one of the reasons , thanks

[WhiteBttm52]

It just comes down to the person - Arab or white or black... I just know that physically I like Arab men so much. But they have to be considerate and smart and all the other good things.

[joejoe131980]

I like arab...

and i like arab cock...:biggrin:

[smooth]

yeah nothing as hot as a arab man ,,,,not only for sex with a big cock but they are sweet too ,,,my last bf was lebanese ,,had 9 inches cut and we shaved every sunday ,,,,,,,,,

[rillantec]

love arab guys, sweet in life, and horny in bed...

[giannigeile]

HOLA SOY_YO

Like your name, I speak some spanish and have just returned from spain. What makes spain special are the mixed cultures and tribes. Celtic, Roman, Arab and some more to make this special cocktail with diverse ingredients. Not just races but cultures as well.
The best in spain for me comes from the Moors and Arabs. Food, plants, trees and fan
tastic buildings. So much phantasy and imagination make up and provide the soul and all that's important.
Arab guys have bred into them so many qualities we northeners seem to lack and want.
For a start their way of moving and being very at ease with themselves. Their incredible
skin and eyes to die for. Male frienship is celebrated and here alas we find none of that.
So a relationship with the right arab < middle eastern > guy is much desired.
Sex on the other hand can be celebrated as well especially when all parties have respect and no guilt creeps in. When money is exchanged it alters the situation considerably. Motives always are important.
Anyway I am from Holland and I Love arab guys.
giannigeile

[ButtyBoy]

I think the question still remains if Arab guys want to be in a relationship with us, because face it, it's easier for Arab guys to have one-night-stands with non-Arab gay guys than to actually be in a relationship with a gay gay. I know I know I know - there are always exceptions!

[smooth]

yes i think that exactely right ,,,too ,,,what u say ,,,,,,,

[ButtyBoy]

Thanks smooth :) How is your love life nowadays?

[smooth]

i'm still on the prowl ,,,damn it aint easy at 55 ,,,,,,,,,but u never know,,,,,,,,,,,,

[rybod88]

yes i have been with an arab man before they make really nice boyfriends sex is amazing but the other areas are equally good

[seytan.cgn]

i have an arab boyfriend and i like it. i only have had german boyfriends before. i never will miss my arab boyfriend :tongue:

[Bardhyl]

First off where in spain were you born? My mom is from sabadell which is near barc haaa. I think arab men are sort of an involuntary sex symbol. I guess it's a stereotype or a label. SOME Western people have the idea that arabs are synonymous with sex and this includes straight people. Just keep in mind, ignorance is in abundance and the fear of difference causes ppl to speculate. Also people have tendencies of attractions to specific traits just like i find the arab look to be a gorgeous one. PERFECTION in other words :p. From the various skin tones, to gorgeous eyes, sharp facial features, ok i'll stop lol. Let's face it, sexual attraction comes first. Before you get to know a person, you have to "physically" like them. Then a conversation ensues ect.. But i wouldnt want an arab for just sex. An arab is a person and a person is more than capable of loving and reasoning. It can be that the guys who want an arab are just ONLY looking for sex (not interested in relationships) and has a liking for arabs? I've met TONS of men like that, they would get hellbent on having sex with me once they found out i'm half japanese and i guess they like that, but they would not even mention a word about building a future or any romantic gestures. :-( So i guess sadly in a way yes, some men want arabs for only sex, but then this happens to every one else as well. So don't take it personally.:smile:

[Fam0usN0b0dy]

I would like a emotional, social, and physical relationship with an Arab man.

[cordage]

I'm a WASP ie: white anglo saxon prostestant. I'm in a relationship with a Lebanese man. We are in our mid 40's. He's a family oriented man and is out to his family as well. His family loves me and I love them in return.

I've always been drawn to Arab-Middleastern men since I can remember.

Hirsute and extra Kibbee please!

[fester]

I think, like everything else, the answer to whether we Westerners would like to having a relationship with someone of Arab descent, or to just have sex with, them fully depends on the Arab person involved.

As with any black, Asian, Latino, or even "white like me" man I find attractive, that attraction is probably at least to some extent initially sexual in nature....but whether it is or not, the attraction might be LIMITED to a sexual nature if the person is not intelligent, engaging, and compatible with me as a lifetime partner.

If they ARE, however, that would not for me be dependent whatsoever on their ethnic origin...though I have to admit if I found a very sexually attractive Arab man also to be a wonderful soulmate, it would make that relationship even more exciting! (-;

[alexoelkuch]

Hi,
i am new in this group and i would say, that i love the arab cultur. The kind of familiy, the matcho beeing out of the home and all thinks, what the cultur are. I am from germany, but it is not so easy to find a friend.

alex

[Mr. K]

I have made many very good arab friends over the years. Never succeeded to combine the sex and friendship though. The men I know as my friends are however so caring, romantic and thoughtful towards me though.

As I always have said once you make an arab friend he is for LIFE!

So yes I would love an Arabic boyfriend who will fuck, protect and love me with every inch of his body :)

[grethomory]

I would love a relationship with one, but haven't found one in Chicago that wasn't straight and just became good friends

[spanishboy]

hi all new spaniard here ;) nice too meet u all

about the topic:
yeah of course having a relationship (with arab boy, european, american...no matter) is something fantastic and of course for me it isn't a problem if that "special" boy is arab. On the other hand i never had had sex with arab but i have to recognise that i would like it so much :P

[slaveboi836]

i would be proud to have an Arab boyfriend if he wanted to have me. i am open to just sex too, but i would like to at least be with someone who wanted to keep fucking me for a while since i have never done it with a man and i want him to deflower me and teach me. but i would let him decide if he wanted me for a relationship or just sex!

[deathangel07]

i would definitely want to have a relationship with an arab man...i would love to have an arab man to love and hold forever....i hope that i would find an arab guy who will accept me for who i am..regardles of he's age...or looks...as long as he's arab...and he can give me the love i am searching for and fantasizing about.....i will be the happiest gay on earth if that happen....

[grethomory]

I can't find any here in Chicago. I don't know where they hangout.

[williwnk]

I would like to meet an arab or middle eastern man. I think they are sexy especially the hairy ones. I like the slim, well endowed types. I would like to meet a man for both, sex and a good realationship.

[australguy]

It depends on what we both wanted, that is just sex or a relationship. For me its not a fantasy thing, I definitely would love a relationship with an Arab man.. period :)

[araboy_uk]

I would love a fellow arab boyfriend (well, i am only half, and from the UK, so it's different) but i would love a boyfriend of any colour, so come and say hello :D

[demonrider27]

sex or relationship, i just need an arab man to fuck me!:tongue:

[maliksi]

Maybe to start as friends and if develops in something more serious, then why not.

[marcdimart]

Well guys,ofcourse fantasy is enhanced by seeing all those cocky boys hanging around,horny as hell in those hot countries...cheap sex is not easy to be had in our part of the world any longer...It used to be different not that long ago! Sicily,greece,Von Gloeden ecc. But does it matter...? Just like all else,offer follows request,and they do defend themselves well,cashing in where they can.And right they are!! I am lucky,having found a beautiful,smart and young man in my hometown in Italy,and found out there are more looking for a mature man,and NOT just for his money...but I feel that many of the gays from arab countries try to leave at all cost to be able to fully live their gayness where it is not a mortal sinn...be respectful always,everywhere and Allah will provide...

[bulls40]

it's not that easy to find one,because there's two factors,the ones who lives overseas and the ones who lives in there countries.very hard to choose

[slaveboi836]

it's not that easy to find one,because there's two factors,the ones who lives overseas and the ones who lives in there countries.very hard to choose

if i found a sexy Arab guy who wanted me i would go to him if i could live with him or if he has some place to keep me.

[Colosus]

I think if you live in West Europe, it will be more simple for people to have a relation ship with an arab men...

I meet some arab people on tchats from morocco, tunisia and algeria, and in each country, I meet arabs who wants a serious relation ship with me, they asked immediately if I can come to their country, if I can stay with them...

In their country (algeria and tunisia), it can be dangerous to live a gay relation ship... but in morocco, it is less dangerous... but in this 3 country, you can have a gay relation ship if outside of the house, you look like a friend of the guy...

So arab people are very friendly, and often wants serious (if the guy is ugly, they only wants to fuck him lol) !

But be warned ! arab people loves to have many partners, so be carefull and be sure that the arab men wants only you !!!

I think to invite an arab men in Europe can be dangerous for a relation ship...

[williwnk]

:redface:I like arab men that are friendly, I like slender hairy types. I like arab men for sex and serious realationships.:tongue::rolleyes: But I would like the man to have a relationship only with me, not with several men.

[slaveboi836]

But be warned ! arab people loves to have many partners, so be carefull and be sure that the arab men wants only you !!!


i dont mind if he likes to have many partners as long as he comes back to me and he uses protection when he takes me.

if he wants to bareback me it must be only me! :)

[Colosus]

So, that's a good point ! have fun with him ! :)

[bodbro]

well said Murat. i live in turkey and, unfortunately, i still see way too many poor village boys offering it up for money. supply and demand is also at play here regardless of the race, color or creed '-)

[Xerxes]

Why is it unfortunate that boys would find a lucrative pastime of offering up sex for money? Would it be unfortunate if a young village boy offered up working 8 hours a day in a grocery store or a foundry or delivering papers all over the city on his bicycle just for money?
Seems to me that the "unfortunate" part is not the sexual sessions (and the probable pleasure he would bring to his customers) but the attitude that others have about sex being a BAD thing. Sex IS a commodity; in fact, it's the most enduring commodity in the history of mankind. Why do we insist on making it a criminal behavior? A hint to the answer, of course, is found in the lavish churches to be found all over the world's poorest places. But we have a choice to believe that sex is bad or that the church is wrong.

[numerobis]

...why not a relationship...?
...sex is something...but not anything...
when I fall in love...why not...???

[iamalegend]

when u find love u find love that's it,,no matter what is nationalty,,no matter what is your color religion,,,
bt the most important thing,,,is u>>>>>>>>>>>>>>not where u belong...hope that more serious topics are on the table and ready 2 answer,,