geisha
11-22-2007, 08:06 PM
Hi!
Just a little thought to share... or maybe bitch a bit more.
I've just broke off with one of my girl friends today... not really a close friend, just another what I'll call "a fair-weather kind of friend".
As I grow older, I came to realise that somehow... "friendship is over-rated".
Am I becoming more impatient with people around me, or is it really the fault of these people around me? :confused:
I just went on a holiday trip with this girl friend of mine (together with another girl friend too). The 3 of us went Tokyo, Japan for 8 days.
As a guy, I paid for most of the expenses 1st, including airfares and hotels.
However, when it's time for me to ask for their payment, this girl friend whom I broke up today started to question my honesty regarding the bills!
Of course, I felt insulted! :mad:
The funny part is, she insisted to see my bills... yet when we arranged to meet and talk over dinner, she was late for more than 2hrs, and still expected me to entertain her after dinner throughout the night over coffee!
Until today, she still thinks that she has to right to question her doubts... but what amuses me is that she never realises the inconvenience she is causing to others.
Being careful and calculative is ok with me... but she obviously can't be bothered and dilly dally taking her own sweet time... really annoys and pissed me off! :mad:
Think I shd really get into a love relationship, instead of concentrating too much on friendships.
Well, well, well... as what I've said, friendship is over-rated!
So, take it like a pinch of salt!
Life must go on!
Love,
Geisha
Just a little thought to share... or maybe bitch a bit more.
I've just broke off with one of my girl friends today... not really a close friend, just another what I'll call "a fair-weather kind of friend".
As I grow older, I came to realise that somehow... "friendship is over-rated".
Am I becoming more impatient with people around me, or is it really the fault of these people around me? :confused:
I just went on a holiday trip with this girl friend of mine (together with another girl friend too). The 3 of us went Tokyo, Japan for 8 days.
As a guy, I paid for most of the expenses 1st, including airfares and hotels.
However, when it's time for me to ask for their payment, this girl friend whom I broke up today started to question my honesty regarding the bills!
Of course, I felt insulted! :mad:
The funny part is, she insisted to see my bills... yet when we arranged to meet and talk over dinner, she was late for more than 2hrs, and still expected me to entertain her after dinner throughout the night over coffee!
Until today, she still thinks that she has to right to question her doubts... but what amuses me is that she never realises the inconvenience she is causing to others.
Being careful and calculative is ok with me... but she obviously can't be bothered and dilly dally taking her own sweet time... really annoys and pissed me off! :mad:
Think I shd really get into a love relationship, instead of concentrating too much on friendships.
Well, well, well... as what I've said, friendship is over-rated!
So, take it like a pinch of salt!
Life must go on!
Love,
Geisha