What's key of successful relationship?

[ArabGayxxl]

I Wonder What's the Key of successful Relationship ?
if i met an DreamBoy & we found out that we're absolutelty Different & we've nothing in common ecxpect Love (sex) what am i suppose to do? I Just Hate Sex without feelings even of sympatique...

[qas123]

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[coldbolt]

I think the key to successful relationship is being honest and understanding to each other....

[Mika]

I think the key to successful relationship is being honest and understanding to each other....

I couldn't agree more! it's also complicity, laughing, tenderness, good sex of course lol :p and loads of love :$ but yeah honesty is one of the keys of course :cool:

[duhleenkwint]

I think the key to successful relationship is being honest and understanding to each other....

I agree. Honesty is very very important. Now, is it honest to post a pic of the model Zeb Atlas as your profile foto?

[angelous]

way to go duhleenkwint! tought none will cach the pic!

Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

[tsbeaver]

I believe it is just ordinary love and hot sex.

[geisha]

My point of view is:

Love and sex is important... but above all, money is of utmost importance to maintain a gay relationship.

Don't ask me why... I just feel that with money, we can buy satisfaction in life. I'm vain and fickle-minded, and if u too are the same as me, then I think only money is the key to settle us down with a man.


I may be wrong sometimes... :rolleyes:
Geisha

[bushiwo8]

Top vs bottom, dominant vs submissive

[Murat]

Learnig that love and sex are not the same thing. The sex part is easy, love alone does not guaranteee a lasting relationship, honesty is important, recognising each others boundaries is vital, respecting each other an absolute requirement. In England a survey of gay relationships revealed that 70% had open relationships. Each partner was aware that the other met other guys for sex. My partner and I meet other guys for sex. When he goes out i am more worried about him getting home safely. If he ever leaves me it will be because he no longer loves me. I wont be for sex. When we first met (he is from Iraq) I never really understood what really loving some one meant. Now I know, and it isn't just sex!. We are just happy in each others company. If you look for love, try to define it, equate it as being the same as sex you will never find it. Was it love at first sight when I met my partner, looking back, probably although I ddin't think about it at the time. ver the years I have met a few (not loads of men for one night stands, and been lucky enough (at my age!0 to be cruised by some others. I can say with absolute honest that i have never once met a guy I have even remotely considered leaving my partner for. If it were to happen, either by him or me, it would be because either he or I wanted it to happen. In short stop worrying about what love means, enjoy the moment, and let things take their course. If you both want to stay together you will work to ensure it happens PS It is hard work!

[xq28]

trust.
you can't make it without it.

[geisha]

Somehow, I don't really believe there is this thing called "trust" in a gay relationship.

What I would say is: Be magnanimous, keep an open mind and give each other "personal space" even though both of u are a couple... sometimes, it'll turn out better to "keep one eye closed" don't u think so?
Some things are just better off to act as if u don't know rather than u knowing too much. ;)


Love is all we need?
Geisha

[Hollandguy]

I am with 'my man' for more then 25 years. The way to success is understanding and respect for each other needs and an open communication about everything you want to speak about.

[Murat]

I to have been in a relatonship with an Iraqi for 15 years, respect is so important,love alone s not enough. Trust is also important. when you begin a relationship sex is very imporant and you think it is everything. would you agree that as the years go by sex is less important and love, respect and trust becomes more important and keeps the relationship going two become one

[geisha]

I to have been in a relatonship with an Iraqi for 15 years, respect is so important,love alone s not enough. Trust is also important. when you begin a relationship sex is very imporant and you think it is everything. would you agree that as the years go by sex is less important and love, respect and trust becomes more important and keeps the relationship going two become one

Hmmm... Hi Murat!

I must agree, your reply is by far the most convincing to me.
At least it sounds realistic enough, tks for sharing your true life experience with us... there're many of us out here who haven't even taste it yet!
Serves as good advice for someone like me though... :o


Still waiting... :rolleyes:
Geisha

[sekobeso]

I think the key to successful relationship is being love and romance

[arzika]

I agree with murat

[Murat]

i don't think it is possible to be with someone for a long time and not love them. Te biggest danger is taking your partner for granted, getting into a routine. every now and again it is important to show your partner you care. you can call it romance, love, or simply being considerate. gay relationships particularly beteen arabs and non arabs have a thousand times more problems than a straighht relationship. without love the difficulties aren't worth all the sacrifices. love makes it worthwhile but love alone is not enough. it is a cliche that your lover shoulsd also be your best friend but it is true. if you can imagine living your life without your partner and feel comfortable with the thought your relationship is, i beleive, doomed. often it comes down to one choice chosing your lover over your family. for a gay man particularly from a society which is based on family life it is often the hardest choice he has to make. he will be disowned and outcast small wonder that he needs to be sure that the peron for whom he is making such a sacrifice is worth it. I am lucky i can say it was, i truly beleive that each one of us is destined at least once in our lives to experience true love, the problem is recognising it when it arrives

[arzika]

murat you are very good thinker.

[mario]

Hi arzika,I am white English gay in London to add to your international and growing list of contacts.I have been seeing Nigerian guy here with incredible body and a cock to kill for and am hoping he is a sample of your country. Mario

[arzika]

yes,majority of our guys are like that Mario,do you like to meet one?

[arzika]

Hi mario,I have added your username to my contact.

[mario]

Hi arzika,thankyou for adding me to your contacts,yes,yes,if you have any friends here in England tell them you know a gay who would like to meet them,How is life in Nigeria? mario

[dougbeads]

I think the key to a good relationship is being able to compromise. Sometimes you just have to let the little nonimportant things go. A sense of humor is good. You also need to like the other person. You can be in love with someone but not really like them. Pleasing each other sexually is an important thing , also.

[europeanboy3]

I dont know if there is fantastic receipt for good relationship.....I think RESPECT(also for others)...Being with someone only for sex, is empty, vanity for me, sooner or later we will "die " in this kind of relationship......love, feel someone to other person is also important, not only desire!...we should feel safe and good with our partner, also communication is a key as well----people should talk each other, and what I think being with someone only for money is not solution---we will also "die"in this relationship.

[Aliston]

Love relationship in gay life is based on trust, being honest, and sincere.......

But is not easy to get both gay men to understand each other needs and others....

I believe that is "True Love" in gay life......

[JCangel]

I dont know if there is fantastic receipt for good relationship.....I think RESPECT(also for others)...Being with someone only for sex, is empty, vanity for me, sooner or later we will "die " in this kind of relationship......love, feel someone to other person is also important, not only desire!...we should feel safe and good with our partner, also communication is a key as well----people should talk each other, and what I think being with someone only for money is not solution---we will also "die"in this relationship.


I fully agree I walked away form someone who lied to me, ued me and was generally treating me badly becuase i had no choice left. If you love them treat them with respect, cherish the moments you have. Happiness is sometimes more important. Take the goodd times with the bad and never forget why you are with this person.

sex isn't the be all and end all, passion can be shown in amny ways.

Jc

[gsdfargo]

I Wonder What's the Key of successful Relationship ?
if i met an DreamBoy & we found out that we're absolutelty Different & we've nothing in common ecxpect Love (sex) what am i suppose to do? I Just Hate Sex without feelings even of sympatique...


The keys to any succesful relationship are always communication and dialogue